What do you think? Will it work if I get back with my ex-husband?
I was 20 years old when I married my ex-husband. It didn’t work out for us because he was in the Army and gone a lot among other factors. And plus, we were just so young. We got divorced 6 years ago and now I’m 29 and he’s 34. Since, he’s gotten married again, but is now separated. I have not remarried, but I do have a boyfriend. We are both not satisfied in our relationships. Not that we’re in real bad ones. With me, it’s just that I don’t think I’ll marry my boyfriend. I tried to make it work, but I just don’t feel the same about him. My ex and I talked the other day about how happy we were when we were together, the things that went wrong and how we both haven’t felt the same about another. We feel that you are not granted many true loves in a life time and we were truly each other’s true loves . . . I miss the feeling I had when I was with my ex-husband and want that back. But, would it be a mistake to try with him again? It’s been 6 years since our divorce and we’ve both changed so much. We’ve kept in touch and I’ve always had a place in my heart for him. What do you think?
no kids involved on either side, and my ex-husband and his wife have only been married for 8 months.
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Fate may have brought you back together for a reason. But just take it slow. Date each other for a while so that you can get to know each other again. There is no reason this couldn’t work out. You have both matured and that means a lot in a relationship. Just go slow.
Red
maybe you should give it a chance. Let your heart be loved and love back
Yah for sure, get married to him again!
I did something very much the same. There was 13 years between though and we weren’t in contact. We remarried. Sadly it only lasted two years because of step children. Don’t use my example though. If you feel it go for it.
I think its great! Probably the only one, but I can totally relate to that. Just go into it with an open mind and don’t rush it. Have lots of communication about what went wrong the first time and what can be done to prevent those problems from destroying the relationship again.
I think you’ve both had time to mature and by moving on and getting into other relationships, you now have a clearer vision about what you want from a relationship.
I would love to get back with my ex–but I would have to make sure that he was completely over his g/f…and you need to do the same. Make sure that you don’t become the rebound from the last marriage failing.
Good luck, and if you’d like to chat more, you can email me.
Six years has a lot of growing up time. If you guys are more open to communicating, still love each other and not committed to anyone else, then why not think about trying dating and testing the waters again?
Why don’t you guys just date for a while? give it 3 or 4 years of dating and see if you can make it work.
It seems to me like it’s worth it.
But please break up with your boyfriend first. Cheating is not cool.
There is a reason he is your ex….you are just lonely and missing that connected feeling when you are in a relationship.
There is a reason he is your ex
Be careful and think it over very well.
Our minds play tricks on us, and we tend to remember only the nice moments, not the bitter or sad ones as time goes by.
Unless both of you have gone to counseling and worked on your issues, chances are you are still the same people you were back then. This means you will still have the same problems you once did, which caused you to break up.
So be honest….and think about what caused the breakup in the first place. Sometimes people change for the better; but sometimes they don’t.
I think that you should give it a chance definitly!… you already married him once.. you know if you love him or not.. i can tell you this… DO NOT GO THROUGH LIFE WONDERING WHAT IF… AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU TRIED IT OUT… YOU OBVIOUSLY DONT WANT TO MARRY YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND SO WHATS THE HARM IN JUST TRYING ONE MORE TIME??
GO GET YOUR MAN GIRL!
“The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce”
-Miguel de cervantes saavedra
Question??? Any Kids involve
Now I think you guys are still in love my advise is Go to a counselor so you guys can see if this time around is really going to work
Remember you divorce before? is an underline reason Why.
you probably have a good chance to make work but most likely it need to be some healing before that happens otherwise you may re great what you are considering life is short any decision we make affect our future.
GBY
I think you’ll never know until you try. I think you only get that feeling with one person, and if he’s it then go for it. What do you have to lose? You shouldn’t be in a relationship with someone you don’t think it’ll work out with anyways, so i’d break up with your boyfriend and see how it works the second time with your ex husband. Maybe you both being changed will improve your relationship.. maybe all you guys needed was to grow more. And if not being able to see each other was the main reason you got divorced it then obviously your relationship wasn’t as bad as some peoples. take it slow and see how it goes. good luck!
The two of you need to discuss what went wrong. You also need to settle it and discuss ways on how to resolve things that seem impassable. After all that discussion, if the spark is still there, by all means give it another shot if the two of you think you can make it.
I think in todays world, this is about the sweetest thing I ever heard! Go for it! sounds like he was the one and still is!
wow this one is crazy it really touches my heart becauser its in the situation im in ight now my ex is in the army so we have seperated but i still love him alot. i hope i will be able to forget about him though
(as for you take the chance! apparently yall love eachother and were put back together good luck !!!!
If you’re to ask me, it’s say it’s highly possible to get him back. No matter how long has it been, or how tough it’s been through, as long as your ex still have you in his mind, you can surely make it work.
Well, it’s not that hard, but it ain’t easy too. All you need is a plan of action, that you moving at the right pace, doing the right things, or one wrong move, and all will be gone.
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But since it’s been so long that both of you separated, I need to know if you’ve kept contacts within the period of separation, and the current condition between you and him, do you guys still share alot with each other? You might want to show him that you still miss him, but not in a desperate look, try to hint him on it, this will make him aware that he’s still got chance if he wants to reverse things, and that you might just find out if he too, still misses you.
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Til then, keep me posted ok? I’ll try to help you! Hit on my email if ever you need serious help!
Wishing for you,
Jc
I think you should let him fully divorce his current wife before pouncing on him. Oh- and maybe you should dump your boyfriend first, too.