What do I do if my ex husband wants me back?
Saturday, December 19th, 2009 at
7:41 pm
I had been dating this guy and bought a home up north. I am in Florida still for my sons. Now my ex husband wants me back. He realized that what he had is gone. We had alot of major crisis that led to this last year with our teenage son who got into drugs. I dont know what to do. I live for my sons, and my youngest livew with him. I would love to go back but how do I tell my boyfriend?
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You have to figure out what you really want, FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR WELL – BEING. not your sons. not your ex, not your current boyfriend, because this will be a severe mistake.
If you are in a relationship that makes you happy, and your ex is your ex for a reason, then gently tell him that you want to leave things as they are, but will always be there for him as a friend.
If you truly love and want your ex-husband back in your life, and you think this can work for all the right reasons, then go ahead. I strongly suggest you really think this through. Non of your kids need to go through a second divorce between their parents.
forget the boyfriend. If you seriously want your husband back then go back. You will always kick yourself if you don’t and always wonder what if….that’s the worst feeling.
If you still love your ex husband; forgive for whatever the reason for the divorce was and work things out. Your children will be so happy. Having their parents together I believe is the best for the kids no matter what age they are. Holidays, birthdays and every thing is nicer and easier to deal with. Less stress for all.
If you want him back also then be honest. Tell your BF you are going to give it another try and you are sorry. He isnt your family, so don’t feel obligated to stay with him to keep from hurting his feelings. Get a backbone and use it.
I’D RUN AS FAST AS I COULD: HE’S AN EX FOR A REASON. JUST START THINKING ABOUT THE STUFF YOU USED TO ARGUE ABOUT AND THE THINGS HE DID TO PISS YOU OFF.
Before you do anything remember. An X is an X for a REASON.
If you really want to work it out with your husband, then tell your boyfriend the truth. I know it sounds easy and I know you know that it isn’t. But that’s the only thing you CAN do if you want to work it out with your husband.
well first of all it is not a good sign when you say you live for your sons surely you have more going on in your life right are you unhappy? and the only thing that keeps you from killing yourself is your kids? if you feel that he is worth giving a second chance to than give him one!!! but do it for yourself not for anyone else!! what are you going to do when your kids are grown and out on their own? die? i don’t think so!
Well dont play games with your boyfriend, just tell him that you want to go back. Plain and simple. My ex wants me back too, but I don’t want him…….i guess that’s the difference. I moved on ,,,you haven’t completely yet, so go on back………..it’s your call,,,,,,,,,I won’t think less of you if you stay or go,,,,,,,,,just never ever forget the reason why you all split up………if you can get over that and let it go, then you might be able to work things out.
thats your choice if you still love your husband give him a chance you can’t turn your feelings off like a light switch if you decide to take your husband back tell your boyfriend how you feel
what changed in your ex that would want you too take him back!
Not once did you mention that you live 4 your ex husband. YOU NEVER STAY MARRIED 4 the kids …. Thats not a marriage … thats family .. Two different things!!!… HUM>>>> Will you b happy ? ex was ex 4 reason HUMMMMMMMMMMMMM. Love is a rare find . When you have it hold on to it!!!!!!!!!!
your ex is an ex for a reason. you gotta know that you cant stay in a relationship for the sake of the children. the kids see, hear, and feel any and all tensions of their surroundings. i understand that you live for your kids that is great. your teenage son that got into drugs he may be trying to escape the stress of his daily life. if you and your ex want to help your son you don’t have to do it by rekindling an old relationship- could you imagine the backfire if it didn’t work again. just how far over the edge would that push your son? i wish you the best of luck.
Make sure your ex does not want you back so you can solely deal with your son. Have your son live with you. Then see what the ex does.
Well my wife cheated on. We have a child together, this was about 2 years ago. Sometimes she tries to talk about getting back together. I reaaly want to , cause i want my family back, but i do not know if it is safe, if i should trust her agian.
If u feel that u can live with him, please do go back.
just remember-the best way to predict someone’s future actions is by their past actions.
Be careful, leopards don’t change their spots.