How do i get my ex-girlfriend back?
Thursday, November 12th, 2009 at
5:46 am
This girl is like my Fiancee. We have a baby on the way. She left before like twice but now she says she doesnt see us being happy so shes not comming back. i made a mistake a chocked her thats why. but she left and i dont want to move on. We are both 21 and known each other since 14. How do i get her back? please help me i cant give up on her
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Hi
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips may not be easy for you to do at first. You may want to give in and call her or see her, but you have to resist the temptation. If you are really serious about getting your ex girlfriend the best step to do is getting a good guide on how ot get your ex girlfriend back. You can learn about the most popular and 100% risk free guide here:
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Looks like you’ll be choking your own chicken from now on
Give sometime and then contact her
You have to or you will never get her back
You choked her?! If that’s what you meant, you have very very low chances at getting this lady back.
You should not choke a person that You love. You made a great mistake buddy and trust me once You do it once most likely You will continue the physical abuse. Get help bro.
I don’t know. I’ve never been able to do what you’re trying to do. I wish you all the best luck, but if she’s made up her mind then maybe that’s the end of it.
What you did was so wrong and you did it out of anger. Make yourself an appointment to go to some counseling. Give her some space…Being PG means she will be very emotional. YOU go to the anger management classes and after you are done, tell her that you went and that you want to try again and if she feels you both need counseling after that…Go..you have a baby on the way and it’s time for you to grow up. If none of this works and she doesn’t come back, you still need to be a good Dad and try to be friends and civil with her for the baby’s sake.
Seeing as how you choked her, the chances of her coming back should be extremely slim. How can you expect her to come back when you are physically abusive to her? Not to mention that she was pregnant at the time! If you lose your temper and choke her, how would you react to a baby crying for hours at a time? No woman in her right mind would let a child (I don’t care if it is yours) anywhere near someone like that. She’s gone…move on.
U CHOCKED HER??? WTF???!!!!! assholes like u shud be in jail! NOt on yahoo answers! I bow to her for leaving u! U want some advice?! Take some class that helps abusers like u! Maybe it’ll help u wit ur low self esteem(thats y men beat women) and make u stick ur hands up ur ass so that u DONT raise them at women anymore!!!!!!!!!! even then i doubt she’ll come back… JESUS! MAN! WHAT IS WRONG WIT U???
O.K. This is how it goes. You get an orangutan. I’m not talking a monkey or some dancing chimp BS, I mean a damn orangutan. Don’t ask me how you’re gonna get an orangutan that’s not my problem. So the orangutan’s name is Clyde. This is non-negotiable, all orangutans are named Clyde. I don’t know why this is, it’s just how the world works. So you and Clyde become man (and ape) about town. You’re seen everywhere together, you make the scene. You and friends go out in big groups. You talk loud, you laugh louder. Every time you say something witty you high-five the orangutan. The town begins to buzz. It gets back to her. “Did you know the guy with the orangutan?” “You used to date the guy with the orangutan?” “Why would you break up with a guy with an orangutan?” Next thing you know she’s calling.
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“I’m hoping we can still be friends. Wanna hang out sometime?” “Geez I dunno, me and Clyde were going to a monster truck race tonight. (Orangutans love monster trucks) In fact the whole social calendar seems kinda full. I tell you what, I’ll make a little note (what was your name again?) and maybe I can squeeze you in.” “Oh, well you know my number so don’t be a stra-” “Hey look at the time! I gotta skate, Clyde’s making Mojitos’.”
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At this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her twist in the wind; you can draw her back into your life at the pace you decide. Whatever, it’s your life. But if you’re a smart man? You slowly phase her back in. You’re IM’ng. You’re talking on Live. You get invited to family functions. You bring Clyde, he becomes like one of the family. You’re one big Brady Bunch.
you need to just talk to her and pour your heart out to her.
if she doesnt accept move on, you dont need someone who doesnt want you.