BEAR IN MIND THEY WORK CLOSEBY..?
Some of you know my history – my husband was recently let go with no further charge by the police, after his ex mistress accused him of sexual assault.
History is:
In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.
After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –
He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..
The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ‘sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.
PRESENT DAY
I have found out via a very reliable source, that early this week, he drove past her as she walked home from work to the station – IMPORTANT- they both work in the same zip code, he is a driver – he saw her, stared, and apparently he parked right whereby he knew she would be walking past.
Minutes later she indeed walked past, and his van was right there, and he caught her gaze and made sure to hold onto it until she disappeared from his view.
I am sure he genuinely had a job/pickup/collection, but answer me this: why did he park right by where she would be walking? I happen to know there are PLENTY OF SIDE STREETS on that road so why did he park up in the main bit where she would be passing (entrance to the metro)
Why didn’t he just think ‘f her’ and park in a side street and not look at her?
Was her perhaps in a state of shock at seeing her for the first time since August, or was he intimidating her? (not his style)
…OR DOES HE WANT HER EVEN AFTER ALL THIS?
I don’t think he has tried to call her – this would lead to his arrest.
Is this coincidence or stalking? Is it enough for her to press charges again? I am sure he had a job on that street but he didn’t have to look at her did he? He saw her as he drove, and OK, he could not help gawping at her then, but then to PARK and watch her as she walked past 5 mins later? THAT IS DELIBERATE, NO?
THIS MIGHT BE A ONE OFF BUT THINGS ALWAYS START SOMEWHERE!