Archive for November, 2009


So my ex boyfriend & i broke up during summer in…August? Yea, I think that’s right. So we both moved to a new school together, same school. I still want to be friends with him, {then maybe get him to ask me out again if possible :-) } but he is hitting on other girls. I don’t know if he already has a girlfriend or not yet. But his birthday was the 25th, & i got him an awesome gift. he once had a beagle so i bought him {a very expensive} glass beagle and wrapped it nicely with a note from me saying we can still be friends. He called me later and said thanks, & i obviously said your welcome & i said how do you like this school, & he said its good but the classes are hard {they aren’t but i said yea to make him feel better} then we giggled because i think we were both nervous b/c we havent talked to eachother for a while- but he broke the silence and said ill see you at school later in a nice kind of way.
Im sorry its so long, but do you think there is a possibility we can get back together? What percentage? Yes or no? Ill take any answer. Thank you all.


He is claiming to have back problems and trying to get a disability check instead of working. I suspect he will be trying to get child support from me as well. We have shared custody of our child and no one pays either party. Would a court even consider having me pay him child support if he is on disability?


my husband and I got married and I was wondering if his ex wife can now go after my income to increase her child support. Would it be better if my husband and I kept our money separate?


I’m still madly in love with my ex boyfriend. I have spent over a year trying to get over him, and i’ve come to the conclusion that we are meant to be together and i need to win him back. Everything online is either the generic suggestions that never seem to work or something guaranteed to work but i have to purchase something. please help me. I’m miserable.

How can i get my ex girlfriend back?


I been trying to get with her for some time now and she says we cant go back out because shes scared she will get hurt and that things will be the same. I told her that things wont constantly but like my word doesn’t mean anything to her really. Ive changed for her but i cant prove to her that i wont her hurt her if she doesn’t give me the opportunity. So what should I do?


BEAR IN MIND THEY WORK CLOSEBY..?

Some of you know my history – my husband was recently let go with no further charge by the police, after his ex mistress accused him of sexual assault.

History is:

In Feb this year I caught my husband cheating with a woman for a whole year and apparently he was on the verge of leaving me for her but we worked through it. He swore that was it with her. Although he said he had loved her. She sent me all his messages and texts and IMs and in these, he expressed his love for her, said he didn’t want to be with me, I was sexless and cold, but SHE was vibrant, sexy and made him feel loved and able to love again.

After I found out, he cut her off and was horrible to her. He also denied he "meant" what he said in the years’ worth of those messages. BUT –

He went back to her many many times over 6 months, after he promised me that he would cut her out of his life for good – most recently in August when he went to her work, asked the guard to call her down, she got into his van to hear him out ..

The next thing you know, my husband is arrested for ‘sexual assault’ in September. He was finally released without charge 2 weeks ago, and that was that, but they have been warned to stay away from each other.

PRESENT DAY

I have found out via a very reliable source, that early this week, he drove past her as she walked home from work to the station – IMPORTANT- they both work in the same zip code, he is a driver – he saw her, stared, and apparently he parked right whereby he knew she would be walking past.

Minutes later she indeed walked past, and his van was right there, and he caught her gaze and made sure to hold onto it until she disappeared from his view.

I am sure he genuinely had a job/pickup/collection, but answer me this: why did he park right by where she would be walking? I happen to know there are PLENTY OF SIDE STREETS on that road so why did he park up in the main bit where she would be passing (entrance to the metro)

Why didn’t he just think ‘f her’ and park in a side street and not look at her?

Was her perhaps in a state of shock at seeing her for the first time since August, or was he intimidating her? (not his style)

…OR DOES HE WANT HER EVEN AFTER ALL THIS?

I don’t think he has tried to call her – this would lead to his arrest.

Is this coincidence or stalking? Is it enough for her to press charges again? I am sure he had a job on that street but he didn’t have to look at her did he? He saw her as he drove, and OK, he could not help gawping at her then, but then to PARK and watch her as she walked past 5 mins later? THAT IS DELIBERATE, NO?

THIS MIGHT BE A ONE OFF BUT THINGS ALWAYS START SOMEWHERE!

Should I get back together with my ex boyfriend?


We broke up 2 years ago because the relationship got too serious for him, I’ve never had feelings for anyone else except for a guy I dated about a month ago. Me and my ex have always kept in touch. Me and the new guy only lasted 3 days because he wasn’t into it. I still think this new guy is cute and so funny, but I’m not torn up that we’re not together. Now my ex will do anything to get me back, and the only thing harder than talking to him and trying to move on in my freshman year of college (which is consequently 5 hours away from my ex) is not talking to him.
he encourages me to go out and date other guys and to tell him my decision until I’m positive in what I want. I just don’t believe I am giving anyone a full chance because I’m always comparing people to my ex, and they ALWAYS come up short. I don’t want to continue wasting my time. and yes, its terrible timing.

how to get back into my ex girlfriend’s head?


i need to kno how to get her thinkin about me, how to get into her mind thinkin about me, missing me.



and she said we could talk, the daughter who is 14 has been hard to deal with but the mother who has a protection order against me is mad at her ex husband my fiance so the other nite I called the daughter and I said (after reading horrible facebook comments about me) if your mom wants to talk I will call back in ten minutes I will tt her ( like we had several times be plus the woman has come to my home several times to pick up my daughter because the kids are buddies) I called back in ten min. no answer so I never tryed to call again, anyway now I may have to go to jail, a detective told me…what will happen to me? Being nice and trying to make nice does not pay..